I went out on Friday and Saturday night, something I haven't done in a long time since I sequestered myself to study. It was good to visit and catch up with friends. I even danced a two-stepped a few times. But maybe I'm just way out of habit or something, but I painfully realized that I'm not very good at flirting. Well, I could even say that I don't know how to flirt.
I saw a couple of guys that I found handsome, but had no nerve to go talk to them. And maybe my straight forward attitude of just saying "hello, how are you?" is not what people are expecting. Or is it my expectation that I think they expect some witty line from me? I also seem to have a "no tolerance for bullshit" mind-set that doesn't help. And I don't play games! The last guy I dated wouldn't come to my place, it was "too far" but he asked 'why didn't I go up to his place?' Jimmy don't play that game!
And I don't feel comfortable going up to a guy in a group of friends. It's interesting to see how someone acts with their friends, but I really don't want to interrupt a conversation.
And then I don't want to meet some guy and then ask him out only to hear " I don't think that my boyfriend/husband would like that." Gay men seem to wear a lot of jewelry and one can never really tell if someone is taken, there could or could not be a wedding/committment ring! I'm so cornfused!
Any help or suggestions would be appreciated!